How do we get our teenagers to not make the foolish choices that we made growing up? I know that I didn't always listen, and things could have turned out so badly in the end!
I got a lecture from my mom today.. Yes! I'm almost 40, and I still get this (lol). We were discussing some advice I gave to my teenage daughter; and she reminded me that she gave me the same advice and I didn't listen. (lol) I remember times I sure wish I would have.. It was so terrifying!
When I about 15 I went home with a friend from school... whom, My parents would have NEVER allowed me stay with if they knew her dad was never home. Even though her sisters were older and acted like a mom in most cases. My mom wouldn't have allowed that situation overnight without an adult home!
At the time, I thought she was paranoid, but as a mom now.. I see her point!!!
Anyways.. My friend and I decided that it would be COOL to walk about 1 1/2 miles up the road to the store at about 11 o'clock at night out in the country. ((NOT A GOOD IDEA)) I guess because we had done it in the day time, we assumed it wouldn't be any different.
As we walked down the long, dark country road a car or two passed by. With not very many houses, I become a little weary of the situation and wanted to head back. However, I didn't want to sound like chicken or a big baby ((I had a rep to uphold, lol, I'm sure if you've been 15, you understand what I'm saying)).
Over half way there we see a car coming up the road and hear the music blaring. I became uncomfortable and a little fearful as the car got closer; and so did my friend!! We knew that we had not made a good decision and that we weren't going to ever try it again.. IF we made it back home alright!
As the car got to us it slowed down, almost to a stop! There were 4 or 5 boys/men (not sure) which sounded drunk, hollering out the windows, and throwing stuff. I don't think that I have ever been scared-er than I was in that very moment!!
They past-us-by and started to slow down more, like they were going to come back.. SO, we took off running into the field and stood behind some roadside brush and trees. They rode past us 3-4 times before they ever stopped. we ended up sitting there for about an hour longer just to make sure they were coming back, before we turned to make our way back home. During these days, cell phones didn't exist, and we couldn't call no one unless we made our way to the store.
This foolish choice could have had TERRIBLE consequences.. Thankfully, they did not!!
I told my daughter this story in order to scare her in some way, I mean, we have to THINK about what could happen. Especially, when you're young! Parents tell you "No" for a reason (lol), even if it doesn't always seem to be a big deal to you!
*My question to you all, is: What were your foolish teenage choices? and How do we keep our kids from making them?
Friday, July 18, 2014
Wednesday, May 28, 2014
Romantic Wednesdays: "Romantic Buttons"
What are your Romantic Buttons? What are your partners? Do you know what they are!?
I was reading an article earlier that said "We all have Romantic Buttons, and knowing your partners Romantic Buttons could help you with a partner that is being cold and distant".
Many people aren't romantic by nature, but their partner knows this about them (I'd hope). However, even when this isn't the persons nature, something sweet and/or out of the normal will be romantic to their partner.
I was reading an article earlier that said "We all have Romantic Buttons, and knowing your partners Romantic Buttons could help you with a partner that is being cold and distant".
However, I think that these questions are better known
to keep the fire burning...
Many people aren't romantic by nature, but their partner knows this about them (I'd hope). However, even when this isn't the persons nature, something sweet and/or out of the normal will be romantic to their partner.
Knowing the 'romantic buttons' will give you an advantage when you are trying to some them some extra love-n-care..
Simple things can make your partner melt-into-your-hands... I think would include (but not limited to):
- Sweet gestures.. little notes, texts, of something that lets them know they are your 'one', when you're not together.
- My husband used to work out of town; so, I would always stick a note in his bag before he left. Sometime during his trip he would find it; and it made him feel loved and miss home a little. I think the little things like this help connect a relationship on some new levels.
- A text out of the blue that says "Thinking of you!" (If this is something that wouldn't normally occur)
- A foot rub... I don't know about all of you, but there is nothing better than a good foot rub/massage. It's like heaven (lol). My husband seems to feel more relaxed and enjoy one as well. However, this be something that you or your partner could hate.. knowing this is key!
- Full Body massage... will leave your partner relaxed and you may even get one in return! This is not only a relaxation tool but could also be a romantic one as well if you know their romantic buttons!
Try to make them feel loved & wanted, in my opinion, is an important key in any relationship, but know what your partners' romantic buttons are (what turns them on, so to speak) is as well! Yes, these things are important to know when the other is cold and distant (mad.. lol); but using them to bring you closer is never a bad idea either.. I think!! What are you all's thoughts?
Monday, May 26, 2014
Wow, I did it!
I have never finished anything big that I started, so it seems; but four years ago I started a journey and tonight I finished it! It's almost bitter-sweet!
I was a stay-at-home mom for a very long time, but when the kids both went off to school I found myself having way too much extra time on my hands. I wanted to get a part-time job, but only one form of transportation, no particular job-trade, and young children I was somewhat lost and out of opportunities.
A friend of mine at the time was going to school online and suggested that I check into it; so, I did. After talking to a counselor off and on a few times, in March 23, 2010 I decided to take a leap and do something that I had wanted to do for a long time.. Go back to school!
The first 6 months of school were fairly easy, since they seemed like refresher classes and classes that were a lot focused on what each person thought.. and I was getting the hang of managing my time to get everything accomplished; and feeling proud of myself!
Classes got difficult after a while, online math isn't no joke; but I pulled through (some how) and finally finished my Associates Degree January 29, 2013!
Deciding to go on to get my Bachelor's wasn't an easy decision, but with some conversation I was convinced it couldn't hurt anything!
Things got harder and I pushed myself to the limit many times to get assignments completed and learn the information that I needed to.. and I showed myself that I could do much more than I ever believed. I struggled; yet, I was driven to learn so much more!!
Tonight I submitted my very LAST assignment... Wow, I did it! I completed my Bachelor's Degree!
It is so exciting to be finished, to have finished such a huge goal, and I am so proud of myself for sticking it out even when things got tough; however, I am so terrified and excited at once about what comes next!
~Regardless of what comes next or in the future, this is one moment that I will always treasure forever!!
I was a stay-at-home mom for a very long time, but when the kids both went off to school I found myself having way too much extra time on my hands. I wanted to get a part-time job, but only one form of transportation, no particular job-trade, and young children I was somewhat lost and out of opportunities.
A friend of mine at the time was going to school online and suggested that I check into it; so, I did. After talking to a counselor off and on a few times, in March 23, 2010 I decided to take a leap and do something that I had wanted to do for a long time.. Go back to school!
The first 6 months of school were fairly easy, since they seemed like refresher classes and classes that were a lot focused on what each person thought.. and I was getting the hang of managing my time to get everything accomplished; and feeling proud of myself!
Classes got difficult after a while, online math isn't no joke; but I pulled through (some how) and finally finished my Associates Degree January 29, 2013!
Deciding to go on to get my Bachelor's wasn't an easy decision, but with some conversation I was convinced it couldn't hurt anything!
Things got harder and I pushed myself to the limit many times to get assignments completed and learn the information that I needed to.. and I showed myself that I could do much more than I ever believed. I struggled; yet, I was driven to learn so much more!!
Tonight I submitted my very LAST assignment... Wow, I did it! I completed my Bachelor's Degree!
It is so exciting to be finished, to have finished such a huge goal, and I am so proud of myself for sticking it out even when things got tough; however, I am so terrified and excited at once about what comes next!
~Regardless of what comes next or in the future, this is one moment that I will always treasure forever!!
Saturday, April 26, 2014
Ordering Flowers Online
I'm not one to order/purchase online; however, I did recently due to situation out of my control!
My brother-in-law passed away a few weeks ago and I wasn't able to make it to the funeral. He lived a few hours away and my local florist costs to get a flower delivered there was a little outrageous in my opinion.
I tried finding a Florist in the area and the prices were steep, to say the least. I came across Flower Delivery Express during my search and the flowers looked beautiful; however, I was a little skeptical because you never know if you'll get what you paid for when you order online (or with someone new)!
After much debate, I decided to purchase a Easter Lily for $39.99 at Flower Delivery Express; and my sister told me that the Lily was beautiful! :)
I'm glad that things were as they appeared on the website and the flower was delivered on time!! I will definitely go with them again in the future if I find myself in the same situation; however, they were a little cheaper than my local florist so I may decide to try them again for local delivery!
Just thought that I would share my experience with you all; and let you know that I was pleased with the service I received from them.
You Never know when you may need a good flower service; and knowing a company has worked out well for someone else is always nice to consider (in my opinion).
Have you ever shopped with Flower Deliver Express? If so, what was your experience like? If not, next time you need a service, check them out; and let us know what you think of them!
**This post is stickily my opinion, based on my experience; and I have not been paid to say so and I am not affiliated with them either!
My brother-in-law passed away a few weeks ago and I wasn't able to make it to the funeral. He lived a few hours away and my local florist costs to get a flower delivered there was a little outrageous in my opinion.
I tried finding a Florist in the area and the prices were steep, to say the least. I came across Flower Delivery Express during my search and the flowers looked beautiful; however, I was a little skeptical because you never know if you'll get what you paid for when you order online (or with someone new)!
After much debate, I decided to purchase a Easter Lily for $39.99 at Flower Delivery Express; and my sister told me that the Lily was beautiful! :)
I'm glad that things were as they appeared on the website and the flower was delivered on time!! I will definitely go with them again in the future if I find myself in the same situation; however, they were a little cheaper than my local florist so I may decide to try them again for local delivery!
Just thought that I would share my experience with you all; and let you know that I was pleased with the service I received from them.
You Never know when you may need a good flower service; and knowing a company has worked out well for someone else is always nice to consider (in my opinion).
Have you ever shopped with Flower Deliver Express? If so, what was your experience like? If not, next time you need a service, check them out; and let us know what you think of them!
**This post is stickily my opinion, based on my experience; and I have not been paid to say so and I am not affiliated with them either!
Sunday, April 13, 2014
A New Me: Let's Get Started!
A New Me: Let's Get Started!: It's time to STOP talking and GET started living a healthier life!! I am going to start by changing ...
Thursday, April 3, 2014
Diaper-Cake: Baby Girl Stroller with Dancing Shoes and Singing Birds
A few months back I did another Diaper Cake... and once again, it was for a little girl! I have used the same blanket on a few diaper cakes; therefore, I wanted something different! I really love being able to do some things like this every now and then because I hardly get to do it much any more...
I loved this Diaper-Cake! The color-combo worked nicely together and it just gave me a sweet feeling inside when I looked at it! I only wish that I could have found a blanket to match the ballet slippers.. that would have turned out nicely, I think! What do you think?
I made this one for a family member. We went to the store and she picked out a few things she liked and what I needed; and in a few hours, this is what we had!
I have to say that the first time I made a Diaper-Cake, it took me a little while (lol); but after making a few now, the time has diminished a lot!
Please.. Share your thoughts and your creative Diaper-Cakes or other gift ideas with us!!
Wednesday, April 2, 2014
Relationship Wednesday : Communication in 2013
People are talking less and typing more these days... How does this affect communication in the relationship?
Couples can chat during the day here and there, or when they are in the same room if they choose.
Communication in 2013 is so different from what it was 10 years ago, we wrote letters.. now we text.
I was discussing an issue that a young lady was experiencing in her relationship, with her, and
She explained how they were having issues in a few areas and how communication has become an issue for them!
Being married for over 10 years, I have been there.. many times (lol); and if any of you have been in a relationship for any length of time, I'm sure you have to!
Its hard to take that step to start a conversation when there's an elephant in the room!
I couldn't help myself in trying to encourage her that things would get better and suggested to write her feelings down and to maybe share them with her husband.
So... for this Relationship Wednesday I wanted to share that Communicating in 2013 can allow us to talk & flirt more to keep the friendship & fires of the relationship going, but when we are in a hard spot it can allow us to talk about our feelings without being interrupted by the other or just being easier to express through writing our thoughts and/or feelings out...
... if we can only take advantage of these changes and use them to better our communication within our relationships .. I think! Thoughts?
*How Do You Communicate in 2013 within your relationship, different than before?
Comment Below & Share your Relationship Communication Tips with others!
(Please, keep comments clean!)
Couples can chat during the day here and there, or when they are in the same room if they choose.
Communication in 2013 is so different from what it was 10 years ago, we wrote letters.. now we text.
I was discussing an issue that a young lady was experiencing in her relationship, with her, and
She explained how they were having issues in a few areas and how communication has become an issue for them!
Being married for over 10 years, I have been there.. many times (lol); and if any of you have been in a relationship for any length of time, I'm sure you have to!
Its hard to take that step to start a conversation when there's an elephant in the room!
I couldn't help myself in trying to encourage her that things would get better and suggested to write her feelings down and to maybe share them with her husband.
So... for this Relationship Wednesday I wanted to share that Communicating in 2013 can allow us to talk & flirt more to keep the friendship & fires of the relationship going, but when we are in a hard spot it can allow us to talk about our feelings without being interrupted by the other or just being easier to express through writing our thoughts and/or feelings out...
... if we can only take advantage of these changes and use them to better our communication within our relationships .. I think! Thoughts?
*How Do You Communicate in 2013 within your relationship, different than before?
Comment Below & Share your Relationship Communication Tips with others!
(Please, keep comments clean!)
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